Read the title again? Wait, do you think that I made a mistake there? Nope, I don’t. So what do you think cougar means here? It’s not a car. It’s not a a type of lion or the name of a rock band. Cougar here means a middle aged woman who actively dating or seeking relationship with younger men, usually with ages of 30 and younger. We usually heard about men dating younger women and it’s not a weird thing these days but what about the opposite? How do you feel about it?
From my personal opinion, there’s no reason to be shocked about cougars. If older men can date or seek a relationship with younger women so why can it be the opposite? Didn’t older women need love and care from others? In most cases, we usually heard about couples who were married for 20 years, maybe 30 years filed divorce. If the husband seek a relationship with other women younger than their age, what could happen to the wives? Should they seek relationship with men who are about the same age as them? If they’re lucky, they might found one but usually they are happily married with another woman.
This would be unfair to them right? Some younger men prefer dating older women because they are more matured. Matured here comes in different definitions, it maybe in life experiences, socially, way of thinking, financially and even sexually. Whether you like to date older woman or not, it’s up to you. The choice is in your hands but it’s certainly not for me because I already have someone younger for me as my future wife. What about you, do want to date cougars?